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Hur fan skaffar man kompisar?

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Josbec : I am 22 years old and am a girl and have had trouble getting and keeping friends since the pre-school. Det er hardt spesielt når du har en diagnose som meg, og de er vanskelige, bare fordi du skulle have haft deres princesses siden du har været 7 år gammel og da du er i min alder, kan du ikke se efter nye venner fordi du allerede har deres og you also have too many. Det er vanlig for deg å ha 500 venner, men kanskje de er 10 som du faktisk møter. The others are just a few people might know about or met once. 

My experiences I have been friends when I have tried to make friends with someone many times but they resulted in me doing the wrong way, one felt forced to be with me though she said yes when I asked almost every time that they have said no several times and they close start wondering if they actually want to see, a girl abducted 2 times and the 3 time we were seen then she said she fell asleep at a mate because they had a theme week. Or as a girl told me when I had a few times here with someone else if we could see a cafe in town. She started straightaway Because I did the wrong way and That she was doing the science line and then she knew everything about getting friends, etc. All in all, I asked if she wanted to see you in town and I Suggested a snack or shopping . I thought we girls liked the shopoa makeup and coffee. De er, ikke desto mindre, de rigtige normale ting, piger, hvis du ikke er en pige som måske ikke kan lide specielt cool stuff. Or worse than when some girls in my class in high school started to mess with me on a lesson because they thought I was wrong because I was talking to people / them on fb. THERE ARE THOUSANDS THAT PRESENT WITH PEOPLE ON FB EVERY DAY. SO, it's hard to get friends. Men det beste er å være selv og aldri gi opp fordi du vil ha venner som liker deg, akkurat som du er, de er bare tålmodige og lærer hva venner er godt og ikke og de lærer å se over tid. 
Yes i understand
Jag har social fobi, depression och andra sjukdomar eller störningar - hur man nu ska kalla dem - som förstör mitt mående helt jävla brutalt och minska min förmågan. Men av någon jävla anledning har jag 300+ vänner. Dock är det på grund av att min pappa är populär där jag bor och att jag låter folk komma. Jag är tydligen attraktiv hur jag än gör. Men, nu är jag så sällan hemma, så det blir svårare för mig. Jag vill inte ha mer vänner än de jag har, men socialisera dig antar jag? Med socialisera menar jag gå ut på café ensam eller med någon du är bekväma med, låtsas som du har gått fel och söker hjälp.

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