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Intressant artikel om "nice guys"

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Jag är en nice guy? men.... den texten som står där... Jag kopiera inte alla punkter för jag orkar inte men ingenting av detta passar inte på mig. Dessa punkter som jag har läst här nedan, ingenting av dessa passar in på mig från flera mil :S

Jag är schysst bara, men inget av det som står på den texten har jag gjort eller varit...

*hideously insecure
*do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention
*You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.
*Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date
*They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things.
*They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong
*They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs
*place the object of their desire on a pedestal.
*Instead of appreciating her, they worship her.
*Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions
*They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else.
*A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.
*Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is
*Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions.
*Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers"